There’s sex work, webcamming doesn’t hold the best reputation. It’s often known as exploitation or perhaps a last-resort hustle to repay debt, but Reed Amber, 26, explains how webcam models are only your average self-employed freelancers with the same amount of agency and independence anyone else.
Model, producer and co-creator of YouTube channel ComeCurious, Reed is basically the physical embodiment of sex positivity, which she defines as “trying to produce people feel like what they’re doing and what they’re into isn’t wrong, it’s normal and it’s absolutely fine.” She’s an enormous advocate for removing stigma and taboos around sex, and we trapped together with her for more information on webcamming, a type of sex work that’s seldom mentioned.
Exactly why do you think that some men, and possibly women at the same time, prefer it to porn?
“There’s a lot free porn that I feel webcamming is more of the personal one-on-one. It is possible to go online and find any ol’ stuff, but webcamming is a lot more personal; it’s tailored exactly as to the you need and what you’re searching for. You’re not sharing it with 100 thousand other individuals. Here is your show. More often than not you build up a relationship, I speak to you as being a friend and that i respect you being a person. ‘How has every day been, what did you get from the shops, what exactly are you cooking for dinner…’ it’s just like an online relationship”
…So it’s similar to the ‘girlfriend experience’?
“Yes, it’s like the girlfriend experience. But that also depends on exactly what the webcam model is a lot like as well as just what the person paying is much like because people want something else entirely.”
Maybe you have had avoid a request?
“I’m definitely one from the cam girls who seldom say no. I’ve always wanted to try a new challenge, but that’s not because I felt like I had to. It’s just personally what I might like to do. I would like to tick stuff off my list, I would like to you must do everything once particularly if it comes to sex positivity. Even when it’s something I’m not really into, I’d still try it. Basically didn’t like it, I’d resemble ‘sorry, I’m definitely not into that.’ But there’s many people that would say no to everything.”
Are there any really common requests that you will get?
“It is determined by the profile that you simply set up because when you create a profile, you’re writing a little bio about yourself, and my bio might be seen as a bit more ‘out there’. I’m offered to anything, like roleplay, so most of the time I get roleplay requests, more because I find them fun regardless of how unusual or bizarre they can be. What excites me are uncommon and strange requests that you just wouldn’t really find. Life’s too boring otherwise”
How do people react when you tell them all you do?
“I have a mix of emotions. Mostly people react positively because of the way I discuss it. It’s so different if you’re really shy and timid and quiet over it. It immediately sends out this concept of ‘oh they’re not completely happy with it.’
Basically you get to become your sex-positive self in your full potential…
“Exactly! That’s where I got my first taste of sex positivity. Dealing with my relationships and going to school I became like ‘woah, nobody thinks the way I do, I have to be weird’. When you are a webcam model, I realised many people are into different things, they merely think that they can’t discuss it.”
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